sometimes when i feel so strongly about something and i just wish i can write it out here,

i know i can't (even though it's my blog).

it will just scream 'attention-seeking' and whatever negative labels there are to be hurled at me

plus i don't know who else reads this blog (other than the few who knows of its existence)

but then again, it's my blog and i haven't hurt anyone so far (i hope) with my words

so i will just write.

something interesting:

yesterday, i was asked again, "when are you going to find a bf?"

then i answered,"you think finding bf is like shopping? can choose and buy one is it?"

this is my standard answer to all who asks the following questions: when are you going to settle down, when are you going to find a bf? when are you getting married? when are you going to have a baby? (!!!!) when are you ... ...

tsk tsk. maybe the next person who asks me will receive the following replies from me: "oh... find bf ah? how about you leh? when are you going to die? when are you getting a divorce?" (if i am really mean) when are you going to be more sensitive? when are you going to... ...

thanks (or for rude people, no thanks) for your concern, but i truly, madly, deeply, really don't need pressure from any of you.